We should avoid driving off a cliff.
We should avoid ingesting poisonous plants.
We should avoid jumping into a pit full of hungry tigers.
Some of the more common words used to describe misadventures include mishap and misfortune. Even tragedy. And misadventures can be these things and often are. But let's talk perspective and scale.
Common mindset based on what we often learn about misadventures: Misadventure = something to avoid.
Consider another, bolder mindset about misadventures: Misadventure = opportunity to live full out and have a more vivid experience.
But how do we avoid driving off a cliff but welcome trying driving with no destination in mind or map? How do we avoid eating a deadly berry but welcome experimenting with new foods?
Misadventure as opportunity is a mindset that nudges our every day habits closer to the edge of our comfort zone. Eventually, misadventure as opportunity is a mindset that routinely takes us out of our comfort zones, but not irresponsibly (like jumping in a pit of tigers).
This week: Reflect on what misadventure as opportunity might mean for you. It's different for each of us, because our comfort zones are at different places.
For me, nudging or blasting through my comfort zone could mean:
- Being really open and nurturing, spending time in this way.
- Transcending what I think I'm capable of physically.
- Engaging in a new enterprise that requires strong teamwork and co-leadership to succeed.
- Cooking something new from scratch.
- Taking a trip with no agenda or plan.
Yes, I'm a recovering control freak. I'm currently cooking up potential misadventures for all of these types of experiences. What might your list look like? And if you embraced your list, how might this impact your work or life? I think the more we nudge or blast past our comfort zones, the more interesting and fulfilling our live will feel.